Anonymous asked: i kinda want to get to know you... do you have a kik? ._. sorry if this is awk.
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Anonymous asked: i really like this guy and he tells me he likes me too. i want a relationship but i don't know if he does. he lives a couple hours away and he's visiting for the summer. yesterday we had sex and it was amazing and he's amazing and ugh what should i do? i don't want to get hurt but i just really like him.
Well for starters, you shouldn’t of had sex with him if you wanted to be with him. You just give him the impression that sex is the only thing you want. Ask him how does he feel about relationships. If he tells you he’s not interested in relationships then you’ll have to move on. Because you can’t fuck your way to his heart.
Anonymous asked: i need some advice... im tired of being played... and lead on... but this one guy his name is Chase.. he makes my world go round now. and he helps me alot.. we kinda dated before but he was a total asshole to me.. but it seems now he changed.. he treated me badly before.. but now hes just so sweet.. im not sure if i should give him a another chance or hes just playing me again :/ HELP PLEASE! btw you give great advice to people!!! please answer and thank you.
People will tell you they’ve changed everyday. But in my honest opinion, people don’t change until they have come close to death or had to change because they had no other choice. If the person wasn’t face to face with those situations, then I’d be ultra skeptical about there 360 personality change. Since personality is encoded deep within a person psyche…
Anonymous asked: I hooked up with a guy 2 wks ago at a party and his friend invited me to a party tht they are having soon and the guy I hooked up with said that I should go & he told me that I should go like 3x that same night while driving & before he dropped me off he said that I should def. go & he would even pick me up & after he dropped me off he was texting me & said that I should go & ish but I said maybe & he said me & him should hang out cause I seem chill & we haven't texted since shld i txt him?
Depends on what you want. Because he only wants to hook up with you again. If that’s not what you want then don’t text him.
Anonymous asked: This guy at my work says he doesn't date girls, he just sleeps with them. He also says he doesn't get involved with coworkers, I'm just trying to understand what's going on with him because he'll hang out with me, & we can talk and laugh for hours and his actions suggest it's more & when his friends call me his girlfriend he doesn't correct them. But he told our boss he just wants to sleep with me not date me. So could you help me make sense of this please, love?
He doesn’t want to get involved with you because you’re a coworker. But he does like you.
Anonymous asked: Fights and now he says he's really done and that he doesn't love me anymore (like he has said before) and he keeps sayin that but in the past he always came back. Should i just forget him or should i try to save what we had ? (2/2)
Leave him alone, he always leaves you when things get rough. Not only that you haven’t even seen him in real life. You don’t even know if he’s who he says he is. That doesn’t help the situation.
ima-book-half-unread asked: So me and my ex broke up back in October, and we recently started talking again. And I have refused to talk about the fact that I still love him or say it but last night he told me he loved me and only said thank you cause I'm afraid he'll hurt me again. And today he sent me a picture of his dick and is being all rude and way to forward (he NEVER acts like this) what do I do? And how can I tell if he is playing me?
You can tell he’s playing you because you only recently started talking to him and he’s showing you pictures of his dick. He’s only trying to have sex with you.
bey0u-nique asked: I met this guy almost three years ago through my friend, but it was on Skype. We stayed up for 4 hours &just talked(my friend fell asleep). I fell in love with him and I still love him and there's no denying we have something special, but weve only met once. We went on a date a few months ago to a movie we held hands but nothing else happened. We flirt alot but he won't hang out because he's really insecure about his looks. Even if its just as friends I want to hang out with him but idk how :/
You have to keep pressing him baby girl. Press him to the point you always bring it up in every conversation. Also instead of texting him, start talking to him over the phone. That’ll get him to be more confortable around you.
flowgkush asked: Me and this girl I consider one of my very best friends started talking again after a brief fall out. The subject came up that if we got together three years ago when we liked each other, where would we be now. We talk about it pretty much everyday and she's already told me she likes me. Catch is, she's engaged. She's confused about her current relationship because she says I make her feel wanted and her fiance has a history with violence, etc. Just looking for some advice here ><'
You really need to understand something, no matter what she says look at her actions. Currently she’s “engaged” if she was ever serious about you two, there would of been something between you two. It’s very important that you don’t fall into this confusion with her. Because the chances of her calling off getting married is very low. She’ll have to tell him, her parents, and his parents. She still has love for him, so the chances of that happening is really low bro. Be there for her, but I wouldn’t take her seriously. If you do, you’ll end up getting hurt.
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