i broke up with my boyfriend because he lied and manipulated me and only wanted me for sex. it was bad and it took me a while to get over because i really loved him. im talking to someone new now and hes really great- literally the nicest, most thoughtful person i've ever met in my life- but he's starting to say some of the things that my ex used to say... and its scaring me. i really like him, but i dont want to go through that crap again, i dont think i could take it. what should i do?
You should continue to give him a chance. You can’t let your ex ruin it for your next. If you do, your ex will be the reason for all your failed future relationships. But you need to let him know, you’re not in a relationship solely for sex. And don’t hook up with him until you’re in a relationship.