Anonymous asked: i kinda want to get to know you... do you have a kik? ._. sorry if this is awk.
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Anonymous asked: i really like this guy and he tells me he likes me too. i want a relationship but i don't know if he does. he lives a couple hours away and he's visiting for the summer. yesterday we had sex and it was amazing and he's amazing and ugh what should i do? i don't want to get hurt but i just really like him.
Well for starters, you shouldn’t of had sex with him if you wanted to be with him. You just give him the impression that sex is the only thing you want. Ask him how does he feel about relationships. If he tells you he’s not interested in relationships then you’ll have to move on. Because you can’t fuck your way to his heart.
Anonymous asked: i need some advice... im tired of being played... and lead on... but this one guy his name is Chase.. he makes my world go round now. and he helps me alot.. we kinda dated before but he was a total asshole to me.. but it seems now he changed.. he treated me badly before.. but now hes just so sweet.. im not sure if i should give him a another chance or hes just playing me again :/ HELP PLEASE! btw you give great advice to people!!! please answer and thank you.
People will tell you they’ve changed everyday. But in my honest opinion, people don’t change until they have come close to death or had to change because they had no other choice. If the person wasn’t face to face with those situations, then I’d be ultra skeptical about there 360 personality change. Since personality is encoded deep within a person psyche…
Anonymous asked: I hooked up with a guy 2 wks ago at a party and his friend invited me to a party tht they are having soon and the guy I hooked up with said that I should go & he told me that I should go like 3x that same night while driving & before he dropped me off he said that I should def. go & he would even pick me up & after he dropped me off he was texting me & said that I should go & ish but I said maybe & he said me & him should hang out cause I seem chill & we haven't texted since shld i txt him?
Depends on what you want. Because he only wants to hook up with you again. If that’s not what you want then don’t text him.
Anonymous asked: This guy at my work says he doesn't date girls, he just sleeps with them. He also says he doesn't get involved with coworkers, I'm just trying to understand what's going on with him because he'll hang out with me, & we can talk and laugh for hours and his actions suggest it's more & when his friends call me his girlfriend he doesn't correct them. But he told our boss he just wants to sleep with me not date me. So could you help me make sense of this please, love?
He doesn’t want to get involved with you because you’re a coworker. But he does like you.
Anonymous asked: Fights and now he says he's really done and that he doesn't love me anymore (like he has said before) and he keeps sayin that but in the past he always came back. Should i just forget him or should i try to save what we had ? (2/2)
Leave him alone, he always leaves you when things get rough. Not only that you haven’t even seen him in real life. You don’t even know if he’s who he says he is. That doesn’t help the situation.
Anonymous asked: Thank you so much for the advice about my dad. It actually made me tear up. You're so right; I'll be sticking around for a lot longer. For him. Thanks again.
Anytime I’m glad I could help.
Anonymous asked: Please! Awnser!!! There's this guy that I like & idk if he likes me back... he's always sending me messages & he always get the conversation started.. we talk EVERYDAY. He even invited me to the movies... but to go with a couple of more people. He asked me to do a prank to one of our friends by saying we went to the movies alone & stuff happened... He told someone that he wanted to talk to me on the phone, but he didnt cuz was too nervious... Is he interested? does he like me?
He’s interested.
Anonymous asked: I'm the anon from before whose bf's mom thinks all we do is have sex. He has talked her and told her countless times that we aren't but she has called him a liar. She wont believe anything he says and will not change her mind on this. I feel so bad. He has been lying to his mom about what he is doing just to come see me. I've told him to stop but he wont listen. We live 30 minutes away and don't go to the same school so I can only see him occasionally. How do I prove myself to her?
Don’t even try to prove yourself to her. You’re not dating her. Plus she’s not even trying to make any effort to like you.
Anonymous asked: My friend knows a really cute guy, but I've never met him. I would really like to meet him,so should I tell my friend to invite him to hang out with us one day? Would that be weird.How should I act?
Tell your friend to invite him. Act like you normally would.
